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      <image:caption>with people you love, or like one sideways glance can ruin your whole day, you’re not alone. For some of us, the combination of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) and living with Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria (RSD) is… a lot. And by “a lot,” I mean: exhausting, confusing, and sometimes downright painful.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Being highly sensitive with a dash (or heaping helping) of rejection sensitivity can feel like living on an emotional roller coaster you never signed up for. But sensitivity is not weakness. It’s depth. It’s empathy. It’s noticing the things others miss. With awareness, gentle self-talk, and practical tools, you can start to feel sturdier inside, even when the outside world feels shaky. You’re not too much. You’re not broken. You’re just wired deeply, and with the right care, that depth can become your power.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Have you ever noticed yourself feeling off around a certain time of year, maybe sad, restless, irritable, or even physically drained, only to realize it’s the same season when something hard or painful once happened? That’s not random. It’s something called the anniversary effect, and it’s more common than most people realize.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Click the button below to open the Holiday Anniversary Effect Planner. You can save it to your own Google Drive or computer, edit it online to fill in your answers, or print it out and keep a paper copy handy. Use it as a gentle guide to plan ahead, track patterns, and build rituals that make the season more supportive.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>When you’re at a concert and surrounded by thousands of strangers belting out the same lyric. And when you go wait in the line for the bathroom (for a long ass time if you’re a woman), or for a beverage and everyone is just SO friendly, chatting each other up, and acting like they are just STOKED to see you there with them.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>This week, try one thing, extend a compliment into a question, show up somewhere your hobby lives, or even just practice your “approachable face” in the mirror. Small steps add up. Because the truth is: you don’t have to just chase belonging in the loudest room, you can create it in the smallest one.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Have you ever caught yourself thinking something like... I’m just bad at relationships. I’ll never be the kind of person who stays organized. I’m too much. I’m not enough.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>If this post got you thinking, and you don’t want to do it alone, I would love to help you get started exploring &amp; challenging your Limiting Beliefs. You can contact me here!</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>If you’re parenting a neurodivergent (ND) kid, you already know they’re basically tiny dopamine scientists. They’re constantly running experiments on how to get their next hit of novelty, fun, or reward.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>That’s not sarcasm, it’s neurodivergent realism. Reading a blog post might seem like no big deal to some people, but if you’re here, you probably know it took a little bit of focus, some scrolling past distractions, and maybe a minor inner debate between this and a game on your phone. I get it, because I live it too.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>I've heard it said that what looks like 80% effort for a neurotypical person might require 115% from a neurodivergent one. The numbers vary depending on the source, but the feeling? SO Accurate.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Two homes often mean two sets of rules. While you may not be able to match everything, you can align on big-picture values like respect, safety, and kindness.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>No, not the kind of PDA you’re thinking of. Context matters, a lot. Many neurodivergent kids, especially those with Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA), also known as Persistent Drive for Autonomy, respond better when they understand why a request is being made.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Think of your life as being a braid. Strand by strand the person you are now was woven over the years. By moments, reactions, instincts, preferences. Things you were praised for, things you were shamed for. How you learned to get things done. How you held your feelings. How you fidgeted. How you focused (or couldn’t). How you shaped yourself around others to be more palatable, or invisible, or just… enough. The braid (or rope, if you prefer) you’ve carried through life wasn’t necessarily one you chose. It made itself, woven from how you survived, what you learned to hide, and what the world expected of you.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>This braid you’ve carried wasn’t only yours. It was formed in silence, through praise, through pressure, through the hidden things To feel safe. To be loved. To belong. And now you’re holding each of these strands. Not to tear them apart, but to know them. To name them. To forgive them. To reweave them, gently, truthfully, On your terms now. More empathy, more understanding in your hands as you reweave, Strand by strand. This Braid is yours now.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Theme: Dual identity, masking Scene: Rumi hiding her “patterns” from everyone, even her closest confidants. Lyric: “I lived two lives, tried to play both sides, But I couldn’t find my own place.”</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>When I talk about "fighting" in this post, I’m referring to verbal conflict in the context of a healthy (or trying-to-be-healthy) relationship. Disagreements, emotional intensity, raised voices, and frustration can all be part of a normal relational dynamic. But verbal abuse, physical violence, financial abuse, threats, control, and manipulation are not. If you're in a relationship where you feel afraid, unsafe, or controlled, please know that’s not “just fighting.” That may be domestic violence, and you deserve safety and support. If you need help or aren't sure whether what you're experiencing is abuse, here are resources where you can talk to someone confidentially: National Domestic Violence Hotline:  1-800-799-7233 (SAFE)  thehotline.org (They offer chat support and resources 24/7) You are not alone. Help is available.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Talking Object: Take turns speaking while holding a neutral item (pillow, dog toy, your grumpy cat). Helps reduce interruptions. Just… don’t throw it. Time-Outs with a Return Plan: Say, “I need 15 minutes to cool off, then I want to keep working on this.” FANOS Check-Ins: This stands for Feelings, Affirmations, Needs, Ownership, and Struggles. Do a quick FANOS check with your partner once a week—it’s a beautiful way to stay emotionally connected and reduce resentment buildup. Prepare/Enrich Tools: In sessions, we use communication exercises that help couples slow down and truly listen. You can practice the same skills at home by mirroring and validating before jumping into your own point. ND-Friendly Conversation Anchors: Jot a note or tap a finger when a thought comes up. This helps you hold onto your idea without zoning out or interrupting.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Listen, I know, setting boundaries can feel a little... icky, uncomfy, unpleasant. You might worry that you’re being mean, pushy, too much, or even selfish. Maybe you’ve tried to set one before, only to cave five minutes later and end up more resentful than when you started. If any of that sounds familiar, you’re not alone, and you’re not a bad person for struggling with this. Boundaries are hard, but they’re also necessary. Not just for protecting yourself, but for building real, honest, mutual relationships. So let’s talk about what boundaries really are, how to set them, and why they’re actually one of the kindest things you can do for yourself... and the people around you.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Now, for the elephant in the room: it’s not just setting the boundary that’s hard, it’s holding it. When you set a boundary and then backtrack (especially if it’s something you’ve been inconsistent about before), it sends mixed messages. People may not take you seriously the next time. Think of it like building a fence... and then pulling the boards off and installing another gate whenever someone pushes against it. Eventually, they’ll stop believing the fence means anything. If the whole thing is just gate after gate, then what’s the point? Relenting too soon teaches people to keep testing your limits or wait you out. And let’s be honest, it teaches you not to trust your own word, too.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>If you’ve ever found yourself wondering why you do the things you do, or wishing you could better understand the people you care about, the Enneagram is a powerful tool that can help bring clarity. At its core, the Enneagram isn’t just about personality traits or behavior patterns. It’s about understanding the deep internal motivations that drive us, often unconsciously. When we can name those motivations, we can work with them in a healthier, more compassionate way.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Enneagram as a Counseling Tool - Enneagram 1 The Reformer</image:title>
      <image:caption>Type One – The Reformer: Principled, responsible, and driven by a desire to do the right thing. At their best, they are ethical and wise; at their worst, overly critical and perfectionistic.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Type Two – The Helper: Caring, generous, and motivated by a need to feel loved and needed. They thrive when they balance giving to others with caring for themselves.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Type Three – The Achiever: Success-oriented, adaptable, and focused on achievement. Underneath, they long to feel valued for who they are, not just what they accomplish.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Type Four – The Individualist: Creative, intuitive, and deeply attuned to their inner world. They seek authenticity and can struggle with feelings of inadequacy or being misunderstood.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Type Five – The Investigator: Analytical, perceptive, and driven by a need to understand the world. They often protect their energy by withdrawing but thrive when they engage and trust.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Type Six – The Loyalist: Loyal, reliable, and security-seeking. They are skilled at anticipating problems but can struggle with anxiety and self-doubt.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Type Seven – The Enthusiast: Adventurous, spontaneous, and driven by a desire to avoid pain and boredom. They bring joy and optimism but can struggle with staying present.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Type Eight – The Challenger: Assertive, protective, and focused on control and justice. They have big hearts but often guard them fiercely.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Enneagram as a Counseling Tool - Enneagram 9 The Peacemaker</image:title>
      <image:caption>Type Nine – The Peacemaker: Easygoing, accommodating, and driven by a need for harmony and peace. They are steady and grounding but can avoid conflict to their detriment.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Enneagram as a Counseling Tool - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - 9 Essential Tools for Surviving Conflict - 3. Symbols &amp;amp; Talismans</image:title>
      <image:caption>This is the necklace that my mother gave me years ago</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>I remember a time, long before I ever considered entering into the counseling field when I watched a movie about a lady who was a therapist. She was played by Meryl Streep if I remember correctly. Her son had begun dating an older woman and it was giving her “fits” as we say in the south (in other words, she was less than thrilled about the situation). As she was dealing with how she felt about her son’s romance, she went to see ANOTHER therapist….. MindBomb.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>about why people should get married, Scripture even mentions more than one. Some recent publications suggest that marrying for love is a bad idea. I explored this idea using internet resources, as well as the Bible to attempt to find out why people get married, for LOVE or for more PRACTICAL reasons?</image:caption>
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