Overview

Type Ones, the Reformers, bring integrity, dependability, and a strong moral compass to their relationships. They’re principled partners who care deeply about doing what’s right, and they often take responsibility for maintaining stability and order. Their commitment to improvement, of themselves, their loved ones, and the world around them, can inspire growth and reliability in those they care about.

At times, however, Ones can become overly critical or perfectionistic, both toward themselves and their partners. They may struggle to relax or to accept that love and life are inherently imperfect. Growth for Ones comes from softening their inner critic, practicing grace, and learning that connection flourishes when they allow themselves and others to simply be human.

Quick-Start / FAQ

Not sure where to begin? Start with your type and your partner’s above to see how your love story unfolds.
Is any pairing the best? No—each couple has unique strengths and challenges.
Are Ones just judgmental perfectionists? Not quite. While Ones do have high standards, their real motivation is to make things better. When they balance discipline with self-compassion, they become devoted, principled partners who inspire trust and bring calm order to those they love.