Curious, candid, and a little bit soulful. This is where therapy meets real talk. As a licensed professional counselor specializing in trauma, neurodivergence (AuDHD), relationships, and the Enneagram, I use this space to unpack the human experience with honesty and heart. Whether you're looking for practical tools, deeper insight, or just a sense that you're not alone, you'll find it here. Each post is written with warmth, wit, and a deep respect for your inner world.
Take a guided tour of the Enneagram Greenhouse. Introducing new aspects of the greenhouse that help to curate the full Enneagram ecosystem. Explore the Quiz, deep dives of every type, the new mistyping guides, type themed playlists, and printable cheat sheets to help you grow with your type. Also a look at what’s coming next to the Greenhouse.
Read MoreI’m a therapist and a mom, and I did not expect an animated K-pop demon-hunter movie to wreck me in the best possible way… but here we are. Between the glowing swords, the goosebump-inducing finale, and a derpy tiger who deserves his own TED Talk, this movie quietly delivers some of the most powerful mental health lessons I’ve seen on screen. Here’s what it can teach us about healing, identity, and feeling whole again.
Read MoreYou love each other, so why does it still feel hard sometimes? This post explores the truth about love, maintenance, and what keeps a relationship running for the long haul.
Read MoreLiminal space isn’t just a pause—it’s a sacred, messy, transformational in-between. In this post, we explore how therapy and self-inquiry can help you sit with uncertainty, listen inward, and move through stuckness with intention.
Read MoreConflict doesn’t have to mean chaos. Learn how to fight like teammates—not opponents—with these therapist-approved fair fighting rules and a free downloadable guide you can use at home or in session.
Read MoreSetting boundaries doesn’t make you mean, it makes you clear. In this practical, compassionate guide, we’ll explore how to create boundaries that reflect your values, protect your peace, and invite healthier connection (with a few metaphorical gardens and Enneagram insights along the way).
Read MoreScreaming toddlers inspired it. The internet helped build it. And now you get to enjoy it. A playlist of the calmest songs out there, curated by a therapist who really needed a breather.
Read MoreAnxiety can hit hard and fast, especially for neurodivergent folks. This post is your go-to “first aid kit” of quick, effective tools for calming your body and mind when everything feels like too much. From vagus nerve hacks to barefoot grounding and “chill pills,” these strategies are simple, practical, and even a little fun.
Read MoreWondering why some therapists don’t take insurance? In this post, I break down the real reasons, from protecting your privacy to getting longer sessions and more personalized care. Especially helpful for veterans, first responders, and anyone tired of red tape getting in the way of real healing.
Read MoreStruggle with comforting others? Learn why your support may miss the mark, and how to truly show up with empathy, validation, and emotional awareness.
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