Overview

Type Sixes, the Loyalists, are warm, dedicated, and vigilant. They’re motivated by a need for safety and reliability, which makes them deeply loyal and hardworking partners. In relationships, they offer steadfast support, a keen sense of responsibility, and the ability to anticipate potential problems before they arise.

Underneath their dependability, though, Sixes wrestle with fear and self-doubt. They scan for danger, question their own judgment, and sometimes overthink to the point of anxiety. Growth for Sixes means learning to trust themselves and their partners, and to act even when certainty isn’t guaranteed. When they do, they become some of the most courageous and supportive partners on the Enneagram.


Quick-Start / FAQ

  • Not sure where to begin? Start with your type and your partner’s above to see how your love story unfolds.

  • Is any pairing the best? No—each couple has unique strengths and challenges.

  • Are Sixes just paranoid? Not at all. Sixes ask questions and consider worst-case scenarios because they want to be prepared, not because they’re inherently distrustful.


Type 6 in Love With…

Type 6 & Type 1

The Loyalist & The Reformer

Couple Nickname: The Trust Keepers

Couple Motto: “Faithful and True”

Type 6 & Type 2

The Loyalist & The Helper

Couple Nickname: The Home Team

Couple Motto: “We’ve Got Each Other’s Back”

Type 6 & Type 3

The Loyalist & The Achiever

Couple Nickname: The Dynamic Defenders

Couple Motto: “Together We’ve Got This”

Type 6 & Type 4

The Loyalist & The Individualist

Couple Nickname: The Guardians of the Heart

Couple Motto: “Safe, Seen, and True”

Type 6 & Type 5

The Loyalist & The Investigator

Couple Nickname: The Steady Sentries

Couple Motto: “Together, Through Thick and Thin”

Type 6 & Type 6

The Loyalist & The Loyalist

Couple Nickname: The Watchdogs

Couple Motto: “Together, We’re Safe”

Type 6 & Type 7

The Loyalist & The Enthusiast

Couple Nickname: The Adventurers in Arms

Couple Motto: “Safe, Silly, and Side-by-Side”

Type 6 & Type 8

The Loyalist & The Challenger

Couple Nickname: The Fortress

Couple Motto: “Strong Enough to Fight, Loyal Enough to Stay”

Type 6 & Type 9

The Loyalist & The Peacemaker

Couple Nickname: The Cozy Anchors

Couple Motto: “Safe, Steady, and Here to Stay”


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