Welcome!

Every relationship tells a story. The Enneagram helps us see the patterns, sparks, and growth edges that show up when two types come together. No pairing is ‘better’ than another; each has its own beauty and challenges.

How to Use This Hub
Click on a type below to enter its Relationship Hub. From there, you’ll find how that type connects with each of the nine types, complete with strengths, challenges, nicknames, and fun extras for every pairing.

Think of this as a greenhouse for love; each pairing has its own soil, climate, and growth potential. Explore, reflect, and see what resonates for your story.


Enneagram Type 1 -

The Reformer

in Relationships

Enneagram Type 4 -

The Individualist

in Relationships

Enneagram Type 7 -

The Enthusiast

in Relationships

Enneagram Type 2 -

The Helper

in Relationships

Enneagram Type 5 -

The Investigator

in Relationships

Enneagram Type 8 -

The Challenger

in Relationships

Enneagram Type 3 -

The Achiever

in Relationships

Enneagram Type 6 -

The Loyalist

in Relationships

Enneagram Type 9 -

The Peacemaker

in Relationships


have more questions?

  • No! Every type can thrive in love!

  • Not necessarily, but it helps!